The Art of Surrendering

Surrendering is not about giving up or admitting defeat as Hollywood will have you believe. It’s about a form of “radical” acceptance.. meaning your understanding where you have been and where you are going and that it will change. But your not attached to the outcome of that!

There is a deep beauty and peace that comes with not being attached to any given outcome but rather knowing you will be okay despite what happens.

How to surrender?

First, acknowledge how your feeling.

Second, recognize that there is nothing wrong with you wanting to have a certain outcome.

Third, make peace with yourself as you acknowledge the many outcomes to the situation you are in.

Finally, take action on what you can control. A lot of times… All that you have control over is yourself. Give yourself some proper self care and even distracting yourself will help too.

Whatever is happening right now. Please know that all that you are feeling is valid. What is meant to be yours and what is meant to happen for you… will never escape you.